Adler wanted papa to take her to the school right next door to the baby house. She pointed and told him all about it.
One of many playgrounds at the baby house. However it tends to be a favorite, probably because it doesn't seem to get used very often.
Giving each other kisses and hugs. We must have done this 25 times while riding in the strollers.
Today marks a milestone for day 14 of bonding. Technically we have fulfilled our requirement for bonding and are ready to go to court. We also completed the paperwork necessary for this and it will be filed tomorrow with court. As of right now court is scheduled for June 22nd. This means two more weeks of visits to the baby house. We are really praying that court is moved up. Please say a pray as well. While we enjoy every single minute we have with our children, we are just really excited for them to see what is outside of the fence surrounding the baby house. There is a very nice park that has lots to do very close to us, as well as multiple playgrounds surrounding our living area. After court we still have a 15 day waiting period before the adoption is finalized. So we will be here for 8 weeks total – 6 more weeks from this point.
We were asked our thoughts on what our children think and understand about what is going on. It is hard to tell if they completely grasp that we are going to take them from the only home that they know. Both of them have favorite caregivers and they love their doctor as well. Aidan is a favorite of one of the caregivers. At times it is a little bit difficult because they love these women and it is very evident. Aidan also loves our translator Oxana. He is always excited to see her and calls for her when we are outside playing. We are giving them lots of attention and love but they do not know us like they know their caregivers. Plus – we don’t speak a language that they completely understand either. However, they always run to us when we come to see them and are very excited for us to be there. One thing that is for sure: they love each other and will call for each other very often while outside playing. They appear to understand more and more English and continue to say English words. Saturday we got the words: Grandma, Pops, and Nana! We feel very confident that our children will bond to us and know us as their parents. The caregivers will ask both of them: where is your mama/papa? And they will always point to us, even with other adults around. This process just takes time. We love our children very very much and we cannot imagine life without them. We know that God has a big plan for our children and all of us as a family.
9 comments:
It is wonderful that you have made completed the bonding period. I hope Court gets moved up for ya'll but if not take this time to see & do anything you want to do without the kids plus rest as much as possible :) Once court is over you are going to be veryyyyy busy!!!!
I love the pictures of all of you on the swings!!!!
Jess and Chris I am glad you are having a positive experience. I love the pics and and the way you put into words how life is going on the other side of our world. You are now twice blessed, but remember you will also have many days ahead of double trouble!!!I speak from experience as you well know. The path ahead will be the most exciting with the best adventures. You can't even have imagined how full and rewarding your life will be with a family of your own. You also have the best family to help and share in the memories you will be making. Looking forward to watch the story in action once your home. Love Jodi and the fam in Wisconsin
tears streaming.. wow!! the kids are so precious.. and I love the picture of the 4 of you.. PRECIOUS!!!
We are praying court is moved up...
Praying for you always...
Love ya,
Lanetta (Mama Hokie ;-))
So glad the required bonding days are completed! Praying that court happens as soon as it can. Some things are out of your control with that and I know it is hard to wait. Just enjoy the time with the kids. They will have quite an adjustment but I'm sure they will adapt quickly! The playground and babyhouse look so different in the warm weather than Uralsk in the snow! Your children are beautiful!
Jessica and Chris,
I am so loving the pictures you post and hearing about your time with your new children at the orphanage. The kids are so beautiful and happy and the four of you together just looks natural. We are keeping you in our thoughts daily and, even though it seems like 4 weeks is a long time, I know it will go quickly. Aren't you glad its spring.?. Love and blessings, Janie
Congrats on finishing the bonding period - one more step done on the path to official parenthood! I agree - the kids understand so much. It's all in their own way and in their own time, but little by little they recognize you as truly unique people in their lives.
praying that court will be moved up. There will be some hard days once the children leave the baby house, but they will soon rely on you guys more and more and their love will grow for mama and papa. Enjoy your time. Your bonding will get stronger once you are with them 24/7 - God does have a big plan for all of you as a family.
We love you! Reading through all your posts and looking at your pictures...you are both wonderful parents...your love for Aidan & Adler is so strong! That along with your love and faith in God will get you through the good & rough times ahead. God is GREAT!! We are so happy for you. Praying the court date gets moved up. Can't wait to love on our precious niece & nephew. And of course our sister & brother. Lots of love. Thinking and praying for you daily - Trista, Brian, Evan & Ethan.
Love the family photo on the swings...too cute!
I think bonding and attachment really begins when you walk out of the orphanage. I think your time spent now allows them to get to know you and not be nervous/scared when they leave the orphanage. I think bonding begins when you are able to take care of their needs (feeding, bathroom visits, baths). As they trust you with their basic functions, they begin to attach to you and understand that you are more than just their caregiver.
Praying court is moved forward for you!
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